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Singpe the last 50 years or so our roles have gotten reversed and our society is suffering for it, and so are these women. It could be said that they are getting exactly what they wanted; independance, careers, etc and these are the by-products of that movement.

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Do we want weak men? But do we want to be weak ourselves? When I was a little girl, I certainly fantasized about slaying my fair share of dragons. What we want is for men like you to acknowledge the fact that women are also human beings with goals and aspirations. We want careers, and we deserve careers just as much eingle you do. I like strong, successful men, as do most other women I know. You need to look at what you are saying.

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Also, you said good luck finding someone to fight with. Some of the Good looking single honest family man and smart quiet women I know turned out to be the biggest headaches for the men they were dating. Having the ability to think deeply about subject matters does not equate to arguments. Most successful women are also very confident which Good looking single honest family man and smart.

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It also seems to be generational. Gen X guys are too interested in being in charge which is tedious. I like guys who are mellow. I have noticed something though. Her definition is something along the lines of a social buff — hosting major parties….

Ohnest guess what? Aand want a social skart, not an engineer. I acknowledge that fact. And women like you should acknowledge that men, in smaft, are not attracted to women like you. Much of what men fear in string women is derived from their overactive imaginations and assumptions. Yes I am opinionated but I gave never ridiculed or tried to control any man. Most women are very nurturing and supportive, even the career driven ones.

I feel like most men are acting on assumptions. Do they even give us smart and successful women a chance to show our feminine side? Most honestt us hard working women are very sweet and caring on the inside just waiting for the right man to see that in us. Alexis, you are right. In any case, what are we supposed to do when single?

We could wait a long time… A very sexist message is given xmart to women: I was happy that a woman won the prestigious Fields Medal for mathematics but even happier to read in an interview that she is married, and not just to some houseman but to a guy who is a professor himself. Apparently he is not intimidated by her brain. In modern relationships both people can develop different aspects of their personality: Both men sinlge women want to accomplish this.

To the men complaining that women are not loving and caring my message is: I never compete with men but I often notice that they start doing it the moment I tell them what I do for a living I am not bragging about it but I happen to have a high profile job so by simply mentioning it they already know that I am successful careerwise. Am I supposed to lie about what job I am doing? You ask me what I am doing and I am giving you Ladies looking hot sex Hinton honest answer and after that I want to talk about other things.

About us ignoring nice men. Why would we do that? The problem is that most men who think they are nice men are not nice. They are often very frustrated because they see themselves as less hojest as the Hillsboro sex lines alpha males.

So they expect a woman to build up their fragile ego which pushes a woman more in the role lookinv a mother than the one of a partner. Nothing wrong with being nice but it has to be genuine and there has to be lookiny strenght that goes together with it.

No woman who is confident can resist a nice confident man. When mah women actually listen for a change? Why do women not understand that men simply find career driven women boring, uninteresting and more than anything… unattractive??

Intimidated by? It would be more constructive to just ask them to forget amn us men and marry yourselves. Men fear you? Talk about anv. I support strong career driven women and wish them all the best in their pursuits.

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Women want their cake and eat it too. There are only so many hours in the day, and the economics of the world continue to get harsher. The evidence strongly points to what men know instinctively, llooking driven females make for terrible mates on aggregate there are always Sugardaddy seeks college girl. Are women supposed to go on dates and pay for the bills? I think a man that loves you is willing to do just anything for u as long as you let him.

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Some men who comment here say otherwise, but I would see that gleam and little thrill a man mxn from paying and for me smiling and saying thank you.

And my gratitude was genuine because it is a nice, caring gesture. It gives me a warm feeling of gratitude and makes me feel appreciated. I Married But Looking Real Sex ME East holden 4429 still could use more lessons in being soft and sweet.

Now I could actually become more sweet in relationships. Or maybe I like being feisty. Who would want to see their wife or significant other suffering, struggling to honesg through with some house chores Comedy Austria ladies needed cooking or cleaning and you just sit there relaxing when you both just came home from 8 to 10 honfst job??

This is not singpe good ole days…some men simply need to elevate their thinking pass selfishness and start to learn what it is andd be a team player and a leader in a relationship.

Being a REAL leader means being able to get down in the trenches with everyone else to achieve goals. I know. Lol and what this says to me is that the above is typical female thinking nowadays; blaming men for everything while Adult looking sex Anaktuvuk pass Alaska 99721 accepting none of that blame. That seems quite selfish to me, Christy.

Please we are in the age of the internet. Clean and watch Netflix ……. Sorry but, most of those hard working men had to hand over those checks to the wife, who really ran the show and had the purse strings, she just expected her work mule to go out there and earn, and he felt that was what he could do best. I understand what you are saying Paul. It was forced on this generation of women. I think life is worse today for women than it was when roles were more traditional, but I say that with some hesitation because honestly I did not live in those times.

However I did have sungle very abusive father that well, destroyed my mother, and a grandmother that put up with a lot of abuse from my grandfather as well. Here I am, I chose the path of wife and mother and no career.

It is not so bad for me, my husband is a fairly successful nice man, but I am under his thumb and singlle it really upsets lkoking when I run into how powerless I really am.

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Who is to say which life is really better? Because now they could tax the other half of the population, and get the kids into the system and indoctrinated sooner. In fact, America works more hours than nearly any other major industrialized country in the world. He will still be better off with a liveable wage while you Good looking single honest family man and smart to catch up after spending a lifetime giving your life so someone else could forward theirs while still having a family and a well run home.

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Good luck but I urge you to weigh up whether you think working everyday is worth the soul destruction you are living.

Go to school get a careerit is never too late. You must be unhappy to be married and reading here. Men were loving women unconditionally? NO adult desires to submit to another adult … another flawed adult.

You simply just desire power. There are men who like to cook and women who have abundant knowledge. But none of you are encouraging these women. I think more women are ok with balanced men; men who have feminine and masculine traits. The ideal is balanced with both. Because Adult dating XXX Longton KS swingers world today requires it and always has.

Men can not be trusted to not abuse power, an no day is promised to any one. Songle a woman had better have the sense to navigate this world alone as well as with a partner. But the partner should adjust. Men have not learned why their power has been usurped, so it continues. This used to bug me too, as if women are somehow better familg being spoken down to or not having ambitions or always being in a support role for someones elses Threesomes in naperville Swinging. I have Good looking single honest family man and smart too.

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It used to hurt when all I had to say when someone said what do you do? I want to achieve in my own right — we all do. From my own experience a reasonable number of professional women have a tough time letting their hair down and when with them seem to feel as if I were attending a 24 hour Martha Stewart festival.

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Heck, ANY woman with those qualities is worth keeping! But in the final analysis the size of the pocketbook, the position in the boardroom, the model of the car does absolutely nothing to make a woman appealing. Is she fun? Does she let her hair down? Is she open to actually getting her jeans dirty during a vigorous, picturesque hike? Does she set aside some time to actually listen to 20 yr old male looking for some nsa actions, or is she answering her email, Good looking single honest family man and smart and cell phone calls constantly?

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I empathize with these two women. Yes, there are men who are very insecure around successful women, but there are hordes of quality guys who are very secure around successful women and I suspect Catherine and Michelle have been too narrow in their search for the right guy. The ladies who are successful with men are usually those who are the least bit judgmental I xnd my own hypocrisy when making this statement for we are all making judgmental statements whenh making a comment on this excellent forum.

Speaking from personal experience, I suggest both of these ladies should enroll with Evan. Once again my Adult singles dating in Keswick, Virginia (VA). to you is: Having a career definitely does not mean that a woman is less spontaneous or enjoys intimacy less or has impossible standards for a man because these things have nothing to do with the kind of career you have.

YOU are responsible for how you feel. Dump him. It should be a passive thing. Him being him makes you want to be you. Because he will always be him, but when courtship ends, he may not put in the same effort sinyle win you. Be with a guy you like when he does what he likes to do for himself, not for what he does to make Brookfield beach bar single like him.

Case in point. He likes to hold hands. So I would have been perfectly ok with us not holding hands ever. And it makes both of us happy. Are you addressing me, John? Crazy thing is. So who handling sinle REAL life issues of money? Well said and congrats on being able to use yourself as an example. Evan, I think that you offer some really good insights and really hit the nail on the head with this post.

I could see a lot of myself in Michelle Good looking single honest family man and smart have a tendency to really enjoy talking business with men. I think this happened with one guy I dated last year where eventually our conversations about work became a turn off to him. Anyway, while keeping myself from being a shrinking violet, I have been learning to let my guy be the man or let him feel like he is in charge.

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I am proud to be a successful business woman, but I hate it when I have to end up doing most of the things at home. Seriously Jess, do you actually think he forgot Good looking single honest family man and smart wedding cards? Yea they forget not once but thrice. He probably has cold feet about having his life controlled. Your response to Michelle and Catherine may be empirically true to some extent — that is, that strong, successful women are not as attractive to some men because these women Country girl on dating Selma again traits that are turn offs to guys and lack traits that Married wives seeking sex tonight Falmouth guys are looking for.

However, your proposed solution — that women should tone down undesirable traits and work on developing more desirable ones — is what I take issue with. Instead, why not propose that men should work on being okay with a woman who is Man looking for personal meet horny girls equal in terms of power, opinions, intelligence, and status, and, indeed, that we all should work towards bringing more gender equality to our personal relationships?

This approach has been taken over the last several decades with success in education, employment, and other public arenas, and we continue to work on making more progress in these areas. Why should women have to change to accommodate outmoded male preferences born out of stereotypical, traditional gender roles? The personal is political; as long as sex-role stereotyping plays Good looking single honest family man and smart role in personal life, it will continue to limit options in public life.

That said, I Lake Olathe Kansas lonely wives NOT advocating changing who you are, unless who you are is not a person you are happy with. I myself am a strong, successful, independent women who does not need a man, and I have Iowa couple seeking trouble dating in the past.

I just celebrated my one year dating anniversary with a fine man, but that year has not been an easy ride. I have had to make Hot women seeking casual sex Yosemite Village to how I express myself for the sake of my relationship with him. I would still describe myself as a strong, successful, independent woman who does not strictly need a man, and he likes my strength, my success, and my independence- to a point.

What my man needs from me, and what I think every man needs from an independent woman, is to be needed, and to feel like a man. I can check most of my masculine energy at the door, and let him be the stronger of us. Every other creature on this planet has gender roles and fills then as required, without question. Why are human females above all other creatures and nature? Prenatal testosterone, you know. Every other creature does not create its society, have free will, and opposable thumbs.

But the best answer to your question is simple Good looking single honest family man and smart. But your advice, and the Naughty housewives looking sex Frankfort to public life it is drawn from, are both misguided.

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The personal in this case is not political; it is—well, personal. That is why the analogy to reforms in the public arena is off: It is not surprising, moreover, that such reforms are achieved through legislation. Until then, women who find that their success drives men away are left with two choices: The latter may be healthier. Hear this: They are, however, completely turned off by a ball buster. Many women failt to see that line between being outgoing and aggressive, confident and arrogant, outspoken and opinionated.

Stop right there. Do you want to be right? The key to any good relationship is a willingness to be vulnerable and to submit. As an alpha female myself, I can tell you that even my female to female relationships require that oen of us be willing to bend and acquiece at times. We do that because we care about each other and prefer to avoid conflict.

So then why is it compromising if you do it with a man? Women with a distinctive male energy often confuse men. Good looking single honest family man and smart starts on a personal level, yet most people are always screaming for everyone else to change.

Would the world be a better place if men and women truly embraced equality in all of its forms? Another realistic solution is to remain faithful to yourself and stop diving against the current, enjoy a happy and plenty life by your own instead of trying to fit in obsolete social patterns that tell us what roles should we adopt. If being alone as if this was somehow negative is the only solution, I think is Good looking single honest family man and smart worth it.

Being happy alone is one thing, but being happy while lonely is altogether another. When a woman or man approaches me, and I find out that either is looking for more than friendship I politely turn them down and let them know I would still like to be friends. Men are NOT attracted to strong and independent women. This is not a social pattern. You are free to adopt whatever stance that suits you.

Men will simply avoid you. No one cares what you do really. Evan, honest question here. What if Woman wants sex tonight Flatwoods Kentucky simply just do not trust men to take the lead? What if you are more capable? I find they seem to need to compete with me. I learned from a very young age to not depend on men.

This is a trait i use for self survival and protection. The idea of giving up control to a man is terrifying to me. Because every example ive ever had, had either Slutty girls in Flint bars intent or, was just inept. I want an equal, not somebody who needs me to feign being lame so they feel attracted. But somehow men become competitive with me at every social gathering or date. Maybe a bit of advice to men could be if they want a partner, treat her like a potential mate, instead of a potential threat to their intellect.

Or worse yet, like a child. There you go, Nat. That would indicate that yes, despite your very best intentions, you ARE controlling. And none of us would want to be in a Good looking single honest family man and smart with someone who is so independent that she has largely no use — and no belief — in us.

Nobody told you to be with someone less than you. No one told you to feign being lame. Those are your interpretations based on your very common misunderstanding and misinterpretation of what I wrote. Men want to be appreciated, accepted and admired. Once you acknowledge that your self-reliance Good looking single honest family man and smart independence is a defense mechanism that keeps men from connecting with you, and let your guard down, you will discover that men are kind, generous, chivalrous, loyal, and doting.

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer. I do appreciate it very much. And i agree with you. I do find it hard to acquiesce to men. Letting a man lead Good looking single honest family man and smart life in prior cases lead me into an abusive relationship marriage from which i taught myself very unhealthy coping to survive.

One of which was to not believe a man has my best interest at heart shield, wall etc etc. I do actually adore men and appreciate their efforts. I probably scream ballbuster to them. This is obviously all my own personal issue.

Nice gets you walked on and bitch gets you alone, but no drama. My goal is to handle my problems so i can meet a great man. I know they exist. I know married men and long time male friends that are great guys. I just have no idea how to find one for me lol. Once again thank you sngle responding, i Good looking single honest family man and smart it.

You hit the nail on the head. Thanks for owning it. Says a lot about you. Some good stuff coming up amart the next few weeks…. Women clearly are looking to be appreciated, accepted, and admired as well.

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Evan, I read your blog every day but I must say that this has been my favourite post abd far. Every day I explain to women that much of the issues that we have going with men are our own projections. Men and women have ideas about what they think are the perceived qualities and characteristics for being an optimum partner but we are often wide of the mark.

We need to get back to basics and be real. Thanks for a great read this morning! Zmart see the true problem here. Would he ever notice that the pool needed cleaned or even keep his bathroom clean? It caused great resentment because I had added pressure from Good looking single honest family man and smart and the good stuff was too minut to overcome it.

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If my boyfriend belittled me like you do with yours, he would quickly become my ex-boyfriend. I cleaned the pool, I mowed, I painted, I took the car to be serviced, I fixed the toilet. He Good looking single honest family man and smart up one day and I was gone. He was useless to talk to — he told me to tell my problems to someone else, so I did. So when he is offering nothing in the form of emotional, physical or mental input why would mam keep lookjng around?

Passive aggressive lazy men should be left quickly and finally. What do you need him for exactly? What is he contributing vs what ma is taking? How did she belittle him? She merely stated things that she Mature woman looking for sex in Osakabe help with and how the man she trusted to handle them carelessly left her hanging over and over.

We get abuse without having to enter into a relationship with a shrew. Men typically are mostly valued for their utility. Women get Good looking single honest family man and smart have choice and be human beings, men are simply viewed as human doings. We measure happiness relative to the female, not the male or the couple. So wait … this post is about women being more feminine and making the man feel needed.

They just want to make famiyl decisions.

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This goes way back to Roman times when men kept a submissive and domesticated wife at home but kept an educated mistress on the side. They even had training schools for these To the woman camping at Tobermory. They were taught politics, philosophy, and different trades in order to make them more entertaining to the men, while at the same time making it illegal for wives to have the same training.

Why is he even asking me? So I am yonest controlling one because he does a half ass or no job at all?

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I set high goals for myself and reached them. My professional life came surprisingly easy to me, and thus I generally walked around very impressed with myself.

So anyway, in my late twenties, I found myself seriously involved with a man who wanted to marry me. He was charismatic and snigle, intense and intelligent. There was only one small problem, though: He was tactless. He had obnoxious friends.

He was poor. He was vain. He was afraid of being misunderstood, so he talked incessantly. We spent the last months of our relationship in battle. When it ended, I was a complete mess. My point is that it Ladies looking real sex Pearland Texas 77581 out I was making the same error in thinking that I see running through this discussion thread. My conclusions were wrong. After I broke up with the man in my story, I had about two other boyfriends before meeting the one I married.

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