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The story we are told now is that all of those reasons, such as father waiting up for you, were oppressive to women. And yet in their absence we can appreciate how an earlier generation of women were made more powerful by them.

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In a convincing attack on the work of feminist theorist Judith Butler in the New RepublicNussbaum observed with dismay a shift in American feminist thought from a practical commitment to using feminist theory and ideas to enact material, legal, and social change, to a form of activism that fails to extend beyond the seminar room, focusing on the symbolic politics of language and performance.

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Tellingly, Butler was the winner of the journal Philosophy and Literature 's Bad Writing contest, and Nussbaum quips that "it is difficult to come to grips with Butler's ideas, because it is difficult to figure out what they are.

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That's true enough, but some women are content to hire others to do the bulk of the caring. Crittenden cannot assume these mothers want their children any less than she and I want our own. Similarly, I don't think Crittenden's criticisms of older mothers are justified. An older mother, says Crittenden, "will certainly be further away from having natural empathy with her child from that vivid sense of what it is like to be young.

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They had not yet begun to hand out condoms or instruct students in how to unroll them over bananas, but the assumptions that led to these advances were all in place. As my friends and I grew into young women, our sexual experience may have varied, but our attitude toward sex did not. You had sex with someone or you Crittendn. You regretted it or you enjoyed Women want sex Crittenden.

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The woman who comes of age today quickly discovers that she enjoys a similar guarantee of sexual equality: Indeed, in all the promises made to us about our ability to achieve freedom and independence as women, the promises of sexual emancipation may have been the most illusory.

These days, certainly, it is the one most brutally learned, at an early age, when all the sexual bravado a girl may possess evaporates Womdn first time a boy she truly cares for makes Women want sex Crittenden clear that he has no further use for her after his own body has been satisfied.

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It doesn't take most women long to figure out that sexual liberty is not the same thing as sexual equality. There's Women want sex Crittenden crude Yiddish expression that sums up the ancient sexual bargain between men and women: No chuppy, no schtuppy. It means, literally, No marriage, no sex.

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Women want sex Crittenden There's that other cliche, too, muttered by disapproving mothers for generations: Why buy the cow when they're giving away the milk for free?

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